Tuesday, January 31, 2006
Hello ppl!
after reading Qi's entry,which i happen to read cos i've nothing to do,felt that maybe i should post something too.
you know,sometimes there are just somethings that you find it hard to say it out when face-to-face.or maybe sometimes you just can't think of it?so i guess maybe this is the place for us,as in Hi-5,to maybe just throw things out HERE.yep ppl,here.you can read them,then think about it.
like what Qi did.
Qi,i know how ya feel.i think all of us do.there are bound to be times when you'll feel this way about your friends.like my classmates.but then after a while you'll regret it and talk to them.i guess what you can do is just try to be nice to everyone.so that way you won't mistreat anybody,not just us. =D
I guess you dun really have to depend on reasons to do things.like for example,the cup that Xin asked you to throw.maybe perhaps you were nearer to the dustbin?or that she had to throw something else?
i'm not saying you should have,but just see the circumstances.if you saw that she was nearer to the dustbin,then tell her nicely that "the dustbin is behind you,you throw.i'll clear the table".
something like that ya know.try to help one another.being best friends you dun need a reason to help one another.
sometimes i'll feel the way you do too.like why do i have to do this,do that.but then at the end of the day,you would feel that you should have helped one another.
about the Orientation issues,it wasn't just your fault lar.guess that we wanted you to ourselves.that's why we felt that way.i mean,having a large circle of friends is good.try to maintain that.it's just about time management lar.on our side,we should have been more understanding.
so i think basically it wasn't just a one side thing lar.to us,there's no such thing as being late or whatsoever.why you handle things that way,you already explained to us Qi.so no worries about it man.we already forgot about that incident liao. =D
hmmm,we all are selfish.but just that you got to constanly remind yourself to try to help one another.there are times when i'm selfish too.but i just tell myself that i should try to help.like for example,actually i didn't want to lend Dasen my crumpler bag.but then i told myself not to be so selfish.i mean,it's just a bag.if dirty,can wash wat.so i lent him in the end.
this kind of thing dun blame yourself or anything.it's not your fault,it's not anybody's fault.so chill yeah =P
about you and Xin quarrelling non-stop.i would say it's just because of coincidences.like when she's talking to you,coincidentally you were doing something else that's important.so it's nobody's fault.but what i see as a third party,that's the way you guys communciate.really.that's what i feel.i'm not encouraging you guys to quarrel everyday or something.but i think it's just the way you guys are.and it's kinda cute too,to see you two bickering non-stop.haha!right,Ying?
i think you guys just have to.......i dunno......maybe try to be nice to each other?haha! =D
so yeah,Qi.dun think so much yeah?it's ok.we're ok with it.we dun blame you or anything.
What are we called Hi-5 for?
=D
CJ
